LOVE WITH THE PROPER STRANGER (1963)
Reviewed by Jerry Saravia
Fluctuating between realism and occasional comical innuendos, Robert Mulligan's "Love With the Proper Stranger" is a slightly off-balance though compelling, forceful romantic drama with comedic and penetratingly dark overtones. It only seems like it ends with a sunny disposition but don't be completely fooled.Effervescent Natalie Wood plays a Macy's salesgirl named Angie Rossini, who discovers she's been impregnated by a jazz, banjo-playing musician, Rocky Papasano (Steve McQueen, a little miscast playing an Italian-American). Angie confronts him at a union hall though it takes him a moment to recognize her. She wants to have an abortion, in those days a back alley abortion, and Rocky tries to financially help her with the decision despite just barely remembering their coital rendezvous. Rocky lives with a stripper named Barbie (Edie Adams) and gets thrown out when he asks her about a special kind of doctor for a "lady friend." The actual scene of a run-down building where Rocky and Angie are supposed to meet with the supposed doctor sticks out because when she can't go through with it and throws a crying fit, you feel her agony and shame in your bones. Rocky feels sorry for her, takes her to Barbie's apartment (oh, the nerve) and begins to develop feelings for sweet, angelic Angie.
Natalie Wood (Oscar-nominated for this film) does an excellent job of portraying a naive, clumsy, winsome young woman who is trying to find her place in the frantic city of New York. Her Italian-American family, which includes her watchful brothers (Herschel Bernardi and Harvey Lembeck) and her traditionalist mother, want Angie to settle down with a perfectly agreeable restaurant owner (a perfect Tom Bosley in his film debut) who is unsure of how to woo a woman. Angie recognizes his niceties but is more deeply attracted to Rocky and eggs him on, testing the waters to see if he is in love or just wants to settle down with her out of responsibility. Steve McQueen doesn't exactly convince me he is Italian, let alone a New Yorker, yet his charisma sells it and he has ample opportunity to show a character who is a bit of a goof, equally as naive as Angie, yet determined to make the relationship work.
Though the tone veers a little from highly dramatic to downright comical at times (the dinner sequence with Bosley preparing a meal and the climactic dinner date with Rocky towards the end), nothing in "Love With the Proper Stranger" feels too out of whack. There are scenes of Angie and Rocky not saying a word to each other, yet their body language says it all. Wood and McQueen don't seem like a real fit and lack chemistry yet purposely so, I think, to show how love can grow without realizing it. That is the special charm at the heart of "Love With the Proper Stranger." The movie is mostly about Angie finding her place in the midst of a chaotic life where all the male characters know what is best for her, never contemplating for a moment that she knows what is good for her. Angie moves out of her brothers' apartment and gets her own place, decorated with her own special touch (she also has a mini-bar though she forgets that scotch and tonic don't go together). Rocky wants to be with her and is attracted to her yet he can't help himself by trying to control her, paying compliments that are awkwardly delivered. It is Angie and Rocky's eventual, though at first unacknowledged, need for each other that marks "Love with the Proper Stranger" as an affecting, bristling romantic drama. There are fireworks at the end for this unusual couple though I am sensing more chaos will follow. You know, real life.


